Alex and I got married in 2011. Wedding planning for me was just one big mind fuck. I've never been the type of girl to dream about 'her big day' and yet that seems to be expected of you.
Our Florist was Blush Floral Design. When we came to arranging flowers for our wedding I was nervous. All I
knew was that I didn’t like any wedding flowers I had ever seen! The
moment we stepped in to have our consultation with Blush, we knew they were perfect. The room was full of beautiful vintage pieces. Bex and Beth from Blush
were both lovely (and made brilliant tea)! Bex listened to us and
created the most perfect centerpieces. She was also a wonderful friend
throughout the planning process.
I bought my dress five weeks before
our Wedding (arghh panic) and Alex came with me to London to buy it (I
know…the groom seeing the dress before the wedding!? He is my best
friend and I wanted to share that moment with him).
Before we were engaged, Alex and I saw the cakes on the English Cheesecake website and joked we would have to get one for our wedding. The look
incredible!!! Then, as we actually had to make a decision on the cake,
we thought ‘why the hell not’!? Alex loves profiteroles and I love
cheesecake. Perfect!
Alex had four best men; Rich, Andy, Mark (they were all in a band together
for years) and Gareth (oldest friend). As they’re all musically gifted they
wrote us a best man song instead of a speech and performed it with
acoustic guitars. It was absolutely brilliant and all our guests loved
it. The chorus was:
“Alex and Jo, there they go,
If she’s Princess Peach then he’s Mario,
He works 9-5, answers to The Man,
Because his rock star dreams didn’t go to plan"
Yes, my real name is Jo... but I prefer Wilma :-)
We danced to to 'I'll Follow You Into The Dark, by Death Cab for
Cutie. It was always the song that Alex would hold my hand to when it
played in the car. They’re my favourite band and Alex would always hold
me a bit tighter when we heard it played at gigs. Although it was always the obvious choice for us, I did resist
choosing it throughout our engagement. The opening line is “Love of
mine, someday you will die, but I’ll be close behind. I’ll follow you
into the dark”. I was worried about people thinking we were morbid, as
they didn’t understand the meaning of the song. I’m so glad we chose it
though – any other song would have been second best.
Words of Wedded Wisdom...
Make it personal! I think so many weddings are planned as
perfectly polished events but have no real connection with the Bride
and Groom. Wedding trends will go in and out of fashion – but if your
day is really personal, it’ll never be dated.
I spent a lot of my childhood being looked after by my
Grandparents. As well as drinking a lot of tea, they bought me up on
films like “Singin’ in the Rain” and all the old Rogers and Hammerstein
classics. This I think has always made me have great affection for
the 20’s – 50’s. I don’t think my wedding was era specific as there
were bits and pieces from all decades. It was all the things that make
me feel nostalgic pulled into one day.
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